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November 24, 2007

How We Met

Helen's Side of the Story:

My friends were planning a road trip to San Francisco and to Napa Valley on Thanksgiving weekend in 2004. I was bummed because I couldn't make it up with them because I had to be here Thanksgiving Day (they were leaving Wednesday night). I wasn't planning on going, but one of them suggested that maybe I could fly up and meet them there. They were going to spend Thanksgiving Day in Davis so they suggested I fly into Sacramento so they could pick me up. I scheduled a flight for Thursday night on United Airlines (assigned seating) and when I got onto the plane, there was already a guy sitting in the aisle seat. I got in (window) and we had an empty seat in the middle. No one ended up sitting in that middle seat, and mid-flight I got restless and asked him if he knew what time it was (yes, I know… sounds like a typical line) and that's when we started talking. I told him I was headed to Napa Valley the next day, and he listed a bunch of restaurants for me and my friends to check out. I said “thanks” already knowing I suck at remembering things. We went on to talk for about 15 more minutes when the plane landed. We walked out of the plane and to baggage claim and he rattled off all the restaurants again to be sure to check out, and I said “honestly, I probably won't remember”… and that's when he said he'd email me the list of restaurants. I said, ok. I looked for a pen and paper and couldn't find one! So, I just gave him my business card that had my email address on it…


Greg's Side of the Story:

My family and I usually spend Thanksgiving weekend in LA. That weekend, I mistakenly thought that I had to work on Friday. So, I booked a flight for Thursday night so that I could make it into work on Friday after Thanksgiving Day. In the plane after the girl at the window seat sat down, the airline stewardess told everyone to make sure to have their seatbelts on and to keep it uncovered so that if the passenger fell asleep, they wouldn't have to be woken up for the stewardess to make sure. I saw in my peripheral vision, the girl who had just sat down, anally moved her blanket so that her seatbelt would show. I smirked (apparently Helen saw me smirk – told me later) and started reading a magazine. The girl was a little antsy and halfway through the flight she asked me what time it was. From there, we started talking and at the end of the flight we walked out of the terminal together and kept up our conversation. I told her I would email her the list of restaurants, and she gave me her business card. I emailed her that night with the list, and got a reply from her on Monday. Apparently she didn't have access to her email! We started emailing and talking, and with the short flights (thank you Southwest) we were able to see each other frequently and build a solid relationship together.


Our story is such a chance happening. So many elements could have been against it, but yet somehow they all came together at the right time and place. We feel blessed that we have been able to find
each other with a strong supportive base of family and friends.


The Proposal
April 8, 2007

We got engaged on Easter Sunday, April 8th 2007 at
Point Dume in Malibu. We spent the morning going to Easter Service and had lunch with my brother in the afternoon. Greg told me that he would take me hiking but wouldn't say where. Greg drove down the Pacific Coast Highway and I was enjoying the beautiful drive. We pulled up to pay for parking, and that's when I realized we were at Point Dume. I love it there. It's beautiful, and I've been there with my family a few times, and would talk about it to Greg on how I wanted to go there with him one day. We hiked on a little trail to go down to the tidepool area, looking at dolphins swimming in the water and enjoying the views and the hike. When we were at the tidepool area, Greg found a rock to put his camera on so that we could take a picture on timer mode. He had the ring in his pocket and while we were both posing for the camera, Greg told me what marriage meant to him, and I started to realize what was happening. He got down on his knee, and I said “yes!”. I found out later that the camera was on record mode, so you can actually see the video here! The sound quality isn't good, but you get the idea. I'm also a dork, but that's ok. We're so excited to get married!

You can see the video here:
Video of the proposal